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Best Moments from Likeability Expert: Stop Doing This, It’s Why People Quietly Avoid You! | Vanessa Van Edwards
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September 10, 2026
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The 15-30 Second Rule for Great Conversations
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Stop Answering 'What Do You Do' Like a Resume
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37:41
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Shoplifting to Success: Finding Hope in Movies
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1:39:02
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Using AI as a Self-Discovery Brainstorm Partner
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1:41:12
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The Contented Pragmatist vs. The Ambitious Hero
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1:42:10
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Beating the 'Phone Feed': Creating Conversational Dopamine
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14:57
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How to Ask Better Questions and Create 'Callbacks'
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17:28
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The High Cost of Communication Friction
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19:46
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The 'Tell Me Something Good' Meeting Hack
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Jerry Seinfeld's 'Numbers-Based' Conversation Trick
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24:15
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The Definition of Aura and Rizz
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1:59:11
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The 'No Work Talk' Party Rule
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26:18
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Why Being Vulnerable Beats Being Impressive
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Mastering Your Maximum Resonance Point
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2:10:21
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The Physicality of 'Aura'
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2:09:35
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Why 100% Eye Contact is Actually Bad
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2:13:45
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Mastering the Art of the 'Listening Cue'
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2:16:59
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Stop Giving Boring Answers: The 'Gift' Technique
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2:19:38
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Curing the Loneliness Epidemic Through Conversation
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2:22:32
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The Hidden Cost of the Hustle: Vanessa Van Edwards on Regretting Social Sacrifice
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2:24:16
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Level 2 Conversations: Dreams and Worries
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27:43
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The Science of Asking About Goals
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Having the Courage to be Disliked
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33:28
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The 'Open Fish' Cue: How to Know You're Talking Too Much
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The Worst Conversation Starter in History
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Conversation as Career Insurance
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Stop Asking 'What Do You Do?' - Better Conversation Starters
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The Danger of the 'What's Your Story?' Question
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The 'Fifth Grade Teacher' Mistake: Why Simple is Better
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The 'Who, What, How' Formula for Introductions
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Why Voice Notes are the Most Selfish Form of Conversation
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Why Our Conversational Muscle is Atrophying
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How to Tell if You Talk Too Much
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The Secret to Talking to VIPs
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Duration: 1:28
Stop Using Compliments and Questions to Impress VIPs
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Entertainers vs. Appreciators: Which One Are You?
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52:43
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How to Fix Conversational Narcissism
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55:16
Duration: 2:15
The Secret to Being Likable: Liking Others First
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1:00:26
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How to Be More Likable: The Power of Conversational Generosity
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Why Being the Smartest Person in the Room Isn't Enough
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1:04:34
Duration: 0:46
Better Interview Questions for Real Insights
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1:06:41
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How to Use 'Signature Questions' to Control Conversations
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1:08:14
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The 'Do You Talk Too Much?' Test
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1:10:06
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Why You Should Stop Asking for Instagram Handles in Dating
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1:13:13
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Redemption vs. Contamination: How Your Self-Narrative Shapes Your Life
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1:19:37
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Stop Asking for Instagram Handles, Ask for Phone Numbers
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1:16:11
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The Bird vs. The Roller Coaster: Understanding Agency
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1:23:29
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The Danger of 'Vulnerability Regret'
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1:18:06
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The 'Sneaky' Question That Predicts Future Behavior
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1:26:26
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Why You Should Avoid 'Toxic Positivity' with Unlucky People
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1:27:21
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Contamination vs. Redemption: How You Tell Your Story
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1:32:51
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Fact vs. Frame: How to Rewrite Your Story
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1:32:51
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The Ambitious Hero: Drive vs. Burnout
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1:35:48
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The Hidden Struggle of the Selfless Helper
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1:46:20
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How to Talk to Someone Who Only Wants to Help
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1:49:52
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The Graceful Exit: How to End Conversations Without Awkwardness
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1:55:54
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The Power of the 'Selfless Helper' Manager
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1:50:24
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Understanding the Creative Disruptor
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1:51:53
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How to End a Conversation Without the Awkwardness
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1:58:13
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