Likeability Expert: Stop Doing This, It’s Why People Quietly Avoid You! | Vanessa Van Edwards

Best Moments from Likeability Expert: Stop Doing This, It’s Why People Quietly Avoid You! | Vanessa Van Edwards

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September 10, 2026
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The 15-30 Second Rule for Great Conversations

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41:42
Duration: 0:34

Stop Answering 'What Do You Do' Like a Resume

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37:41
Duration: 0:36

Shoplifting to Success: Finding Hope in Movies

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1:39:02
Duration: 0:40

Using AI as a Self-Discovery Brainstorm Partner

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1:41:12
Duration: 0:52

The Contented Pragmatist vs. The Ambitious Hero

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1:42:10
Duration: 1:20

Beating the 'Phone Feed': Creating Conversational Dopamine

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14:57
Duration: 1:03

How to Ask Better Questions and Create 'Callbacks'

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17:28
Duration: 0:36

The High Cost of Communication Friction

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19:46
Duration: 1:04

The 'Tell Me Something Good' Meeting Hack

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22:20
Duration: 0:45

Jerry Seinfeld's 'Numbers-Based' Conversation Trick

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24:15
Duration: 0:50

The Definition of Aura and Rizz

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1:59:11
Duration: 1:19

The 'No Work Talk' Party Rule

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26:18
Duration: 1:20

Why Being Vulnerable Beats Being Impressive

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2:05:02
Duration: 2:51

Mastering Your Maximum Resonance Point

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2:10:21
Duration: 2:14

The Physicality of 'Aura'

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2:09:35
Duration: 0:46

Why 100% Eye Contact is Actually Bad

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2:13:45
Duration: 1:01

Mastering the Art of the 'Listening Cue'

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2:16:59
Duration: 0:49

Stop Giving Boring Answers: The 'Gift' Technique

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2:19:38
Duration: 0:48

Curing the Loneliness Epidemic Through Conversation

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2:22:32
Duration: 0:49

The Hidden Cost of the Hustle: Vanessa Van Edwards on Regretting Social Sacrifice

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2:24:16
Duration: 1:21

Level 2 Conversations: Dreams and Worries

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27:43
Duration: 1:22

The Science of Asking About Goals

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30:38
Duration: 1:03

Having the Courage to be Disliked

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33:28
Duration: 0:35

The 'Open Fish' Cue: How to Know You're Talking Too Much

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0:00
Duration: 0:25

The Worst Conversation Starter in History

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8:41
Duration: 0:44

Conversation as Career Insurance

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4:14
Duration: 0:22

Stop Asking 'What Do You Do?' - Better Conversation Starters

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8:52
Duration: 1:27

The Danger of the 'What's Your Story?' Question

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11:12
Duration: 1:10

The 'Fifth Grade Teacher' Mistake: Why Simple is Better

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Duration: 0:38

The 'Who, What, How' Formula for Introductions

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Duration: 0:26

Why Voice Notes are the Most Selfish Form of Conversation

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Duration: 0:39

Why Our Conversational Muscle is Atrophying

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Duration: 1:36

How to Tell if You Talk Too Much

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Duration: 0:47

The Secret to Talking to VIPs

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Duration: 1:28

Stop Using Compliments and Questions to Impress VIPs

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51:26
Duration: 1:17

Entertainers vs. Appreciators: Which One Are You?

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52:43
Duration: 1:04

How to Fix Conversational Narcissism

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55:16
Duration: 2:15

The Secret to Being Likable: Liking Others First

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1:00:26
Duration: 0:21

How to Be More Likable: The Power of Conversational Generosity

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59:43
Duration: 1:07

Why Being the Smartest Person in the Room Isn't Enough

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1:04:34
Duration: 0:46

Better Interview Questions for Real Insights

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1:06:41
Duration: 1:27

How to Use 'Signature Questions' to Control Conversations

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1:08:14
Duration: 1:08

The 'Do You Talk Too Much?' Test

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1:10:06
Duration: 0:30

Why You Should Stop Asking for Instagram Handles in Dating

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1:13:13
Duration: 1:57

Redemption vs. Contamination: How Your Self-Narrative Shapes Your Life

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1:19:37
Duration: 2:02

Stop Asking for Instagram Handles, Ask for Phone Numbers

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1:16:11
Duration: 0:31

The Bird vs. The Roller Coaster: Understanding Agency

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1:23:29
Duration: 1:03

The Danger of 'Vulnerability Regret'

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1:18:06
Duration: 0:29

The 'Sneaky' Question That Predicts Future Behavior

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1:26:26
Duration: 0:46

Why You Should Avoid 'Toxic Positivity' with Unlucky People

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1:27:21
Duration: 0:37

Contamination vs. Redemption: How You Tell Your Story

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1:32:51
Duration: 0:49

Fact vs. Frame: How to Rewrite Your Story

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1:32:51
Duration: 1:17

The Ambitious Hero: Drive vs. Burnout

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1:35:48
Duration: 1:30

The Hidden Struggle of the Selfless Helper

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1:46:20
Duration: 1:27

How to Talk to Someone Who Only Wants to Help

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1:49:52
Duration: 0:26

The Graceful Exit: How to End Conversations Without Awkwardness

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1:55:54
Duration: 3:14

The Power of the 'Selfless Helper' Manager

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1:50:24
Duration: 1:18

Understanding the Creative Disruptor

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1:51:53
Duration: 1:29

How to End a Conversation Without the Awkwardness

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1:58:13
Duration: 0:55