Why Your Brain Turns Your Partner Into An Enemy - Stan Tatkin

Best Moments from Why Your Brain Turns Your Partner Into An Enemy - Stan Tatkin

modernwisdom
September 5, 2026
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Why Romantic Relationships Are Harder Than Friendships

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1:43
Duration: 1:01

Why Love Is Not Enough for a Relationship

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3:36
Duration: 1:17

Plan for Your Devils, Not Your Angels

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7:17
Duration: 1:13

The Power of Quick Repair: Why You Must Fall on Your Sword

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19:49
Duration: 1:52

Why Groups Fail Without a Shared Purpose

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10:57
Duration: 0:55

Pattern Recognition and the Threat Response

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17:33
Duration: 1:01

The Art of Falling on Your Sword: How to Save Your Relationships

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20:57
Duration: 0:44

Why Your Brain Shuts Down During Arguments

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30:11
Duration: 1:00

The Brain on High Alert: Why Safety Trumps Connection

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30:33
Duration: 1:21

The Right Way to Apologize and Prevent Resentment

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35:11
Duration: 1:11

Why You Can't Just 'Get Over' the Past

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38:24
Duration: 1:51

Why Your Memory is Unreliable During Arguments

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41:08
Duration: 1:06

The Upper Bound of Relationship Texting

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42:39
Duration: 2:21

True Incompatibility vs. 'I Can't Quit You' Biology

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48:00
Duration: 2:01

Why We Stay in Toxic Relationships

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50:11
Duration: 0:40

The Danger of Relationship Automation

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53:25
Duration: 0:57

Don't Take Your Partner for Granted

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53:00
Duration: 0:21

Curiosity is the Flame of Dopamine

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54:50
Duration: 0:27

The Animal Whisperer: Knowing Your Partner

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59:42
Duration: 0:35

The 30-Minute Rule for Relationship Repair

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1:03:24
Duration: 1:21

The 'Touch Toes' Rule: Doing the Hardest Thing

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1:05:05
Duration: 1:14

Your Partner is Your Survival Team

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59:45
Duration: 1:28