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Best Moments from Why Your Brain Turns Your Partner Into An Enemy - Stan Tatkin
modernwisdom
September 5, 2026
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Why Romantic Relationships Are Harder Than Friendships
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1:43
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Why Love Is Not Enough for a Relationship
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3:36
Duration: 1:17
Plan for Your Devils, Not Your Angels
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7:17
Duration: 1:13
The Power of Quick Repair: Why You Must Fall on Your Sword
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19:49
Duration: 1:52
Why Groups Fail Without a Shared Purpose
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10:57
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Pattern Recognition and the Threat Response
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17:33
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The Art of Falling on Your Sword: How to Save Your Relationships
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20:57
Duration: 0:44
Why Your Brain Shuts Down During Arguments
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30:11
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The Brain on High Alert: Why Safety Trumps Connection
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30:33
Duration: 1:21
The Right Way to Apologize and Prevent Resentment
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35:11
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Why You Can't Just 'Get Over' the Past
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38:24
Duration: 1:51
Why Your Memory is Unreliable During Arguments
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41:08
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The Upper Bound of Relationship Texting
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42:39
Duration: 2:21
True Incompatibility vs. 'I Can't Quit You' Biology
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48:00
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Why We Stay in Toxic Relationships
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50:11
Duration: 0:40
The Danger of Relationship Automation
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53:25
Duration: 0:57
Don't Take Your Partner for Granted
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53:00
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Curiosity is the Flame of Dopamine
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54:50
Duration: 0:27
The Animal Whisperer: Knowing Your Partner
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59:42
Duration: 0:35
The 30-Minute Rule for Relationship Repair
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1:03:24
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The 'Touch Toes' Rule: Doing the Hardest Thing
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1:05:05
Duration: 1:14
Your Partner is Your Survival Team
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59:45
Duration: 1:28
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